徐仕豪 - 计较

NO right & NO wrong

In this world, many things are not right or wrong of the points. Human make their own choice base on their need or personal values. People of different status, there will be a different look at things in perspective.

One of the survey question I had asked around my friend about what is the meaning of be yourself. One of them gave me a good example. ABC do not like eat chili, because of some one, she try to eat chili although she hate it.

Do you think ABC can stop eating chili from the moment ABC choose try to eat chili?? ..For me, my personal opinion, it is impossible. Chili increase the flavor and taste of ABC life, ABC may fall in love with chili. Everyone cannot stand in the origin place right. Although, try to be someone else's time is limited. But the ABC has changes already. No one will remain unchanged, there is no way to revert to its original self. If still feel that must be yourself, then which mean if ABC is naïve if the former?? Is it?? Changes back to laughable or maintain in bad habit??

Another question i had asked myself ?情人还是朋友比较长久？？My answer is 情人..like someone i told me, she said, friends will changes from time to time. From primary school until we enter into real society. How many friends we already lose contact either we totally forget. I totally agree that. We do not expect or demand too much from our friends but lover. We never treat our friends like a way we treat our lovers what. Not every thing we can share with friends but lovers. 只有心爱的人才会拥有不一样的待遇。人们只会在心爱的人身上付出、牺牲、无条件以及心甘情愿的完成每一件事情，不管多么的难搞，一定会用心，尽力去完成。只有爱，这些事情才会发生。。

Everyone has their own ideas, we cannot force others to follow our own ideas, we are no right to criticize other people's values except they did some things wrong. Maybe some will disagree, but remember this is just a personal perception. No right, No wrong!!!